Could not agree more Mamta... --- ...with your statement that we should use both approaches and not restrict to one or another in our daily communication! Language and communication are 'live things' that evolve all the time depending on who it is that we communicate with (friend, family, colleagues, strangers, partners, etc.), why (to get information, to persuade, to present ourselves as experts in certain area, to manipulate, etc.) and how (informally over dinner, at a businesses meeting, via phone, emails/texts, etc.) that it's hard to find one 'winning formulae' that could be used as a pattern for all these different situations.

Source author: Andrej Skrinjaric andrejs@diplomacy.edu